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					<description><![CDATA[10月から働いているスタッフの行動が徐々におかしくなり、発言や行動も目に余るようになりました。 目次 問題行動をおこすスタッフとの会話嘘をつくスタッフの心理Josieが付いていた嘘とその背景や狙い新しいスタッフが付いてい [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>10月から働いているスタッフの行動が徐々におかしくなり、発言や行動も目に余るようになりました。</p>

  <div id="toc" class="toc tnt-number toc-center tnt-number border-element"><input type="checkbox" class="toc-checkbox" id="toc-checkbox-2" checked><label class="toc-title" for="toc-checkbox-2">目次</label>
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    <ol class="toc-list open"><li><a href="#toc1" tabindex="0">問題行動をおこすスタッフとの会話</a></li><li><a href="#toc2" tabindex="0">嘘をつくスタッフの心理</a><ol><li><a href="#toc3" tabindex="0">Josieが付いていた嘘とその背景や狙い</a></li><li><a href="#toc4" tabindex="0">新しいスタッフが付いていた嘘やその狙い</a></li></ol></li><li><a href="#toc5" tabindex="0">みんなにも伝えます・・・すると</a></li></ol>
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<h2><span id="toc1">問題行動をおこすスタッフとの会話</span></h2>
<div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">あなたの2カ月のお試し期間がおわったけれども、正直に言うとあなたのパフォーマンスはかなり低い。</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">目に余るのは仕事のバランスが悪い。<br />
たこ焼きをやく、野菜を切る、洗い物をする、昼ご飯を買う、これらの仕事をほとんどしていない。</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">また、オーナーであるRhaneの指示に対して反応がなかったり、従っていないこともある。</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">そのため、現状のままだと今年中で雇用の継続は行わない。</div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
<p>・・・すると予想もしない返事が。</p>
<div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_mla w_b_jc_fe w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_R w_b_flex w_b_jc_fe w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_R w_b_relative w_b_direction_R w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_R w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_R w_b_shadow_R w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div"><strong>わたし実は1月中旬から大学に行くんです！</strong></div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_R w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_R w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/blackwoman1_laugh.png" width="96" height="96" alt="スタッフ" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">スタッフ</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_think w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_col w_b_ai_fs w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_O w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_think w_b_think_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_bal_O w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">何言ってるんだ？<br />
とりあえず探るか・・・。</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="18" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_O w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">どこの大学？</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_mla w_b_jc_fe w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_R w_b_flex w_b_jc_fe w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_R w_b_relative w_b_direction_R w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_R w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_R w_b_shadow_R w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">〇△大学です</div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_R w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_R w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/blackwoman1_laugh.png" width="96" height="96" alt="スタッフ" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">スタッフ</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">片道車で４時間かかるね。<br />
4年間通うの？</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_mla w_b_jc_fe w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_R w_b_flex w_b_jc_fe w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_R w_b_relative w_b_direction_R w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_R w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_R w_b_shadow_R w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">いえ、2年間だけです。</div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_R w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_R w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/blackwoman1_laugh.png" width="96" height="96" alt="モブ女" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">モブ女</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_think w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_col w_b_ai_fs w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_O w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_think w_b_think_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_bal_O w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">最終学歴は高卒だろ。<br />
それに彼女が話している専攻は4年のはず。</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="18" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_O w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_mla w_b_jc_fe w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_R w_b_flex w_b_jc_fe w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_R w_b_relative w_b_direction_R w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_R w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_R w_b_shadow_R w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">来週末のみんなでの旅行なんだけど、大学のクリスマス会があるので参加できなくなったんです。</div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_R w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_R w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/blackwoman1_laugh.png" width="96" height="96" alt="モブ女" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">モブ女</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_think w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_col w_b_ai_fs w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_O w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_think w_b_think_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_bal_O w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">始まってもいない大学のクリスマス会・・・<br />
よくわからん。</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="18" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_O w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_mla w_b_jc_fe w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_R w_b_flex w_b_jc_fe w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_R w_b_relative w_b_direction_R w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_R w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_R w_b_shadow_R w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">大学が一月12日から始まるから<br />
11日まで働きます！</div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_R w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_R w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/blackwoman1_laugh.png" width="96" height="96" alt="スタッフ" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">スタッフ</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">決めるのは私。<br />
あなたが決めることじゃないです。</div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
<p>なんだかよくわらないことを一方的に突然話してきた彼女。</p>
<h2><span id="toc2">嘘をつくスタッフの心理</span></h2>
<p>まず、この流れは5年前のJosieの時と非常に似ていますので、比較してみます。</p>
<h3><span id="toc3">Josieが付いていた嘘とその背景や狙い</span></h3>
<p><strong>「スタッフＡは売春婦だから気をつけて」</strong></p>
<p><strong>「スタッフＢは貧乏で高校生の時に乞食をしながらシンナーや煙草を吸っていた」</strong></p>
<p>Josieは別にスタッフが嫌いだったわけではないのに、このような発言をしたのには理由がありました。</p>
<p><strong>・私がほかのスタッフを信頼しなくなり、Josieとだけ話をするようになる。</strong></p>
<p><strong>・Josieがほかのスタッフや私をコントロールしやすくなる。</strong></p>
<p><strong>・自分にとって都合のいい状況を作りやすくなる。</strong></p>
<p>つまり、自分が支配者になりたかったわけです。</p>
<h3><span id="toc4">新しいスタッフが付いていた嘘やその狙い</span></h3>
<p><strong>「大学のイベントに参加するため、仕事のイベントには行けない」</strong></p>
<p>これに関しては、おそらく二つの理由があります。</p>
<p><strong>・嫌われていることを自覚しているため、楽しく過ごせないのが確定しているから。</strong></p>
<p><strong>・プレゼント交換のためのお金を使いたくない。</strong></p>
<p>簡単に言えば自分の自尊心を守るための行動と言えるかもしれません。</p>
<p>Josieの時とはちょっと違います。</p>
<h2><span id="toc5">みんなにも伝えます・・・すると</span></h2>
<p>問題のあるスタッフに「大事なことだからスタッフみんなと共有させてね」と許可を取ったうえで伝えました。</p>
<div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">彼女は来月から大学に行くそうです。<br />
宿泊行事には出られないようです。<br />
他のスタッフに許可を取ったとのことで、年末には10日間仕事を休むそうです。</div></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_mla w_b_jc_fe w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_R w_b_flex w_b_jc_fe w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_R w_b_relative w_b_direction_R w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_R w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_R w_b_shadow_R w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">は！？なにそれ？<br />
みんなもうプレゼント買ったでしょ？<br />
それに10日間の休みだなんて聞いてない。</div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_R w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_R w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="http://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/75279140_2360682447387109_6087572377745489920_n-300x300.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Rhaneさん" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Rhaneさん</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_mla w_b_jc_fe w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_R w_b_flex w_b_jc_fe w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_R w_b_relative w_b_direction_R w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_R w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_R w_b_shadow_R w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">スタッフのAngelicaは仕事の日を交換することにＯＫといいました。</div></div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_R w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_R w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/blackwoman1_laugh.png" width="96" height="96" alt="だめスタッフ" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">だめスタッフ</div></div></div></div><div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/CENTER_0001_BURST20221228102603372_COVER-300x169.jpg" width="96" height="96" alt="Taka" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">Taka</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">はい、と言うことで仕方ないので<br />
それぞれまた働きましょうね～。</div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
<p>こんな感じでみんなは仕事にもどりました。</p>
<p>すると2時間後くらいに私のスマホに画像付きの連絡が。</p>
<div class="w_b_box w_b_w100 w_b_flex w_b_div"><div class="w_b_wrap w_b_wrap_talk w_b_L w_b_flex w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_ava_box w_b_relative w_b_ava_L w_b_col w_b_f_n w_b_div"><div class="w_b_icon_wrap w_b_relative w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_wrap w_b_direction_L w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_ava_effect w_b_relative w_b_oh w_b_radius w_b_size_M w_b_div" style="">
<img loading="lazy" decoding="async" src="https://taka-life.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/blackwoman1_laugh.png" width="96" height="96" alt="いいスタッフ" class="w_b_ava_img w_b_w100 w_b_h100  w_b_mp0 w_b_img" style="" />
</div></div></div><div class="w_b_name w_b_w100 w_b_lh w_b_name_C w_b_ta_C w_b_mp0 w_b_div">いいスタッフ</div></div><div class="w_b_bal_box w_b_bal_L w_b_relative w_b_direction_L w_b_w100 w_b_div"><div class="w_b_space w_b_mp0 w_b_div"><svg version="1.1" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" xmlns:xlink="http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink" x="0px" y="0px" width="1" height="38" viewBox="0 0 1 1" fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" stroke-miterlimit="10" class="w_b_db w_b_mp0"><polygon fill="transparent" stroke="transparent" points="0,1 0,1 0,1 0,1 "/></svg></div><div class="w_b_bal_outer w_b_flex w_b_mp0 w_b_relative w_b_div" style=""><div class="w_b_bal_wrap w_b_bal_wrap_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_bal w_b_relative w_b_talk w_b_talk_L w_b_shadow_L w_b_ta_L w_b_div"><div class="w_b_quote w_b_div">あの、私のサンダルの上に、なぜか食器洗い物でカゴいっぱいのが置かれているんです。</p>
<p>私がスケジュール変わってほしいとお願いしたら彼女が断ったので「どうして自分だけ交換するの」って聞いたからかも・・・</div></div></div></div></div></div></div>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>いやいや、本当にこまったことをしてくれます。</p>
<p>嘘にうそを重ねて、自分の好きではない人には、こそこそといやがらせ。</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>彼女がいなくなるまで耐えるしかありません。</p>
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